Hope using the word "God" in my title hasnt offended any of my lovely readers... I am just in the most cheesed mood ever right now and that is thanks to the rude awakening that i got this morning and then the lecture that i got followed by some yelling and storming off. Lovely... just bloody wonderful... Heres the thing, if someone wants to talk to me then talk to me, engage in a conversation, dont sit there taking notes like a therapist. I do not need therapy, and therefore i dont want you to write down everything that i say and then analyze it in an annoyingly "knowing" way. Dont be too judgmental, that will only piss me off. Dont talk at me. If you want to have a conversation with me then please, have one but treat me as an adult, engage in a two sided conversation, not one where you are talking and talking in a derogatory way and i cant get a word in edgewise. It doesnt help listing my faults, i am more likely to shut you out that way. Lecturing is just annoying and although i do need your advice as you are older and more experienced than i am, i do not want to listen to you nag me about everything in the world. Its really annoying. If i finally get a word in and you dont like what i said, dont get up from the table and choose to just end the conversation, isnt it a bit hypocritical of you to do that? As i have not got up from the table yet and you have said alot of things that have annoyed me...Also realize that you dont need to tell me all my faults, because i know what they are anyway, and its just going to make me feel bad if you list them, and that then will make me shut down completely. Last but not least, know that i DO love you, a ton, and your opinion is valuable to me. Just please, next time you want to have a conversation, have a 2 sided conversation, dont just talk at me forever and ever.
Love Always
SmartyPants xo
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